Why Can’t I
Just Stop?

No. This group is for women who keep reaching for a behavior they genuinely want to change. That might be porn, but it might also be food, alcohol, spending, scrolling, relationships, or avoidance. Sexual struggles will likely be a significant part of the conversation, but they are not the only reason to come.

You are welcome here. We’re not going to panic, clutch our pearls, or shame you. I know how lonely this can feel. We can talk honestly about sexual struggles without graphic descriptions or anyone being expected to share intimate details.

No. You can participate, listen, reflect, and ask questions without naming your particular behavior. Cameras are optional. Coming into the light doesn’t mean giving everyone access to your story. You get to have appropriate privacy and boundaries.

No. This is Christian formation, ministry, and education through a workbook, teaching, discussion, and prayer. I’m not diagnosing conditions or providing individualized mental-health treatment in this group. Some patterns need specialized clinical or recovery support alongside—or instead of—a cohort. Receiving that help is welcome here; it isn’t spiritual failure.

That’s exactly the kind of woman I had in mind. We’ll look beyond the promise to “never do it again” and examine what keeps happening before, during, and after the pattern. I can’t promise a cure in four weeks. I can offer a place to learn, practice, ask honest questions, and consider your next steps with Jesus.

You don’t have to “get clean” before you come. You can begin while the struggle is still real. This group doesn’t replace treatment or crisis care, but you do not need a finished testimony to participate.

I understand. The group is small, and our Heartbeat community is private. The enrollment form lets you give a safe email address and a first name or alias for Zoom. We ask everyone to protect one another’s stories and respect privacy. Teaching is recorded; personal sharing, sensitive questions, and personal prayer are not.

Other participants will know who is present, and no online group can guarantee absolute confidentiality. This is not legally privileged therapy. Share only what you feel comfortable sharing; you never have to disclose your intimate details.

You can catch up with the teaching and instructional recordings in Heartbeat. You won’t see a recording of another woman’s personal discussion or prayer, because those portions are never recorded. You do not have to attend every meeting live; the form also lets you indicate that you expect to use teaching replays only.

No. You can buy the workbook for $12 on its own. Paid subscribers already have access to it. If you need help accessing the workbook, say so on the enrollment form—no explanation required. The cohort donation is encouraged and optional.

I’ll review registrations and follow up by email to confirm places and send next steps, including access to our private Heartbeat community. Buying the workbook or giving a donation alone does not reserve a place. We need five participants to run, with room for up to 15.